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Old 05-14-2012, 05:55 PM
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Default I'm about to have a mental breakdown.

I just found out my boyfriend has been sleeping with hookers. For years but worse than that it's been quite frequent since I got pregnant. Right before I was pregnant, two days after Valentine's day, twice on the weekend he drove me to go to my grandmother's funeral... he insisted he got "lost" twice and was gone for hours. I honestly didn't think cheating because he usually spends all his time with me and is obsessed with me. Well, guess he's just a huge liar and he still won't admit to it despite me having proof.

As much as I didn't want to I sent some proof to his ex girlfriend too because he did it even mroe to her and I feel she had the right to know.

I honestly do not understand it. Not to toot my own horn but I'm pretty and not boring in bed. He gets it plenty and now I am so worried that not only do I have something, but htat I could give HIV to my unborn baby.
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Old 05-14-2012, 06:03 PM
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Oh my goodness. Wow. I'll be thinking of you as you get through this, I don't even know how to manage this.

I'm sure you're getting tested, but I'd do that after killing him. Wow.

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this!

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Old 05-14-2012, 06:04 PM
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ASAP. I need to get out of our house first and then I'm running to the doctors office.
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Old 05-14-2012, 06:09 PM
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OMG sweetie, I am so sorry. I have no idea what to say! My heart goes out to you. I wonder if he has a sex addiction or somthing like that.

Get checked ASAP, and I well be praying and sending vibes your way and the babies way that everything will be ok and results will be negative.

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Old 05-14-2012, 06:12 PM
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Oh man I'm so sorry. That's exceptionally slimy behavior. Maybe he gets off on being an asshole or he thinks he's clever sneaking around. Please don't look to yourself for causes for his behavior, it's not your fault.

I'll be thinking of you. That's really rough.
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Old 05-14-2012, 06:18 PM
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OMG--I am so sorry. Hopefully he used protection and nothing has been passed to you. I would call your OBGYN right away though to give them a heads up and figure out the best course of action.

Again, I am so sorry he betrayed you like this. I wish there was something I could say to make it less painful. You are strong and will get through this....


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Old 05-14-2012, 06:33 PM
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Omg, I am so sorry! My heart dropped when I read this thread.

It definitely has nothing to do with your looks as you are gorgeous- HE is the one with issues. It wouldn't matter how you looked or anything- nothing warrants cheating

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Old 05-14-2012, 06:36 PM
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Oh no

It is absolutely not your fault. You did nothing wrong, and it has nothing to do with your looks or abilities or anything. Even if you were an ugly bed sloth, it does not excuse sleeping around on the mother of your unborn child.

I am glad you're getting tested right away--I'm sending prayers that you and the baby are okay.
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Old 05-14-2012, 06:42 PM
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All I can think of to say is (((HUGS))).
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Old 05-14-2012, 06:44 PM
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Some people just don't care about others at all, they act like it while it suits them, then they don't.

Don't waste your time wondering why, he's ultimately just selfish without a thought of others. These types of people don't change ever, they just change their stories.

Get yourself checked and move on with your life. Easy for me to say i know, but really don't waste any more time on the selfish fool. he's not worth it. You are, spend that time and energy on YOU.
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