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Old 03-29-2012, 11:57 AM
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No matter how much we try.. You can't stop bad things from happening. Chalk it up to a learning experience... It is just a part of life
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Old 03-29-2012, 12:23 PM
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Only to see if he was worth gold digging lol





No, I can't imagine not having that conversation with him... and like others said, I love him, I'm not going to leave him that easily, warts and all.
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Old 03-29-2012, 12:35 PM
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Nah. My boyfriend and I have been together for around five years and we're both incredibly boring people. I can't think of any thing he doesn't know about me, and I can't imagine there isn't any thing I know about him. He's a very straight forward good person. I imagine if we ever broke up it would be the most amicable friendliest break up in the history of the world.

If he wanted a prenup to get married (and I don't even care about whether or not we ever get married) I would sign it. He comes from a very rich family and he would never leave me high and dry.

That is the most naive sounding thing I've ever said, lol.
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Old 03-29-2012, 01:27 PM
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No matter how much we try.. You can't stop bad things from happening. Chalk it up to a learning experience... It is just a part of life
Exactly. Our pasts and how we have moved through them have helped shape who we are today.

There are always exceptions . . . serial killers . . . but that's not going to show up on a background check
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Old 03-29-2012, 02:14 PM
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I wouldn't do a background check. Prenups I waffle on. My problem with them is that they kind of set a tone of expecting to fail, which I don't think is a good way to go into a marriage. It also is sort of a... "what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours" kind of thing which I personally don't ascribe to.
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Old 03-29-2012, 02:45 PM
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"what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours"
See that's just silly.........Kevin knows what's MINE is mine and what's HIS is mine!

J/K.........mostly! LOL
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Old 03-29-2012, 02:53 PM
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Seriously, I don't even get the "my paycheck goes into my account, your paycheck goes into your account" thing for married couples. I know it works for a lot of people, and whatever floats your boat, but... I just personally don't get it.
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Old 03-29-2012, 03:01 PM
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I won't ever have a SO, but if I did I would not check.
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Old 03-29-2012, 05:20 PM
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A background check? Nope, but Tyler and I have been together since Highschool so I pretty much know everything bad that he's done. ha ha

Im kinnda up in the air with the prenup thing. I don't want to sign one, and I actually might refuse to sign one, but I think Tyler would pefer for us to sign one. I guess when we come to that bridge we will cross it, until then, I will try and not think about it lol
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Old 03-29-2012, 05:32 PM
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I wouldn't do a background check. I would not request a prenup but I would sign one if he did. I'm not so naive to think everyone is 100% truthful about their past. He very well could have skeletons in his closet but I have given him the benefit of the doubt. Apart of being in a relationship is trust and without that... what do you really have?
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