Dog Site - Dog Stuff
Dog Forum | Dog Pictures

Go Back   Chazhound Dog Forum > Dog Forum News > The Fire Hydrant

Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 02-24-2012, 04:33 PM
jess2416's Avatar
jess2416 jess2416 is offline
Who woulda thought <3
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: NC
Posts: 22,560
Default something is wrong with me

i dont know what is wrong with me... im soooo freaking happy for my bf (long story short he got a new job) but for some reason im sitting here ****ing crying cause im stressed about it...

how can i be soo happy but depressed at the same time?? it doesnt make sense
Reply With Quote
Old 02-24-2012, 04:42 PM
JessLough JessLough is offline
Love My Mutt <3
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Ontario
Posts: 13,397

Is a big change happening with the new job?

Try not to stress about it too much. You have my number, text whenever you need someone, no matter the time
Ella: 3 year old female ferret
Nacho: 9 year old male ferret
Summer: 5 year old female ferret
Goodbye, Rosey. You were the best girl I could have asked for. 10/15/96-03/08/13
Reply With Quote
Old 02-24-2012, 04:57 PM
Dakotah's Avatar
Dakotah Dakotah is offline
Kotah BEAR
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: GA
Posts: 7,998

I don't really know what to say...
I hope everything else is okay, though.

You can hit me up on FB if you need to, <3 you Jessamahka.
*War Eagle*
Reply With Quote
Old 02-24-2012, 06:25 PM
eddieq's Avatar
eddieq eddieq is offline
Silence! I ban you!
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: PA
Posts: 8,807

Simple. Chicks is crazy.

I hope you start to feel better!
When things don't go your way, stop and think, "Problem, or inconvenience?" - with apologies to Robert Fulghum
Reply With Quote
Old 02-24-2012, 08:07 PM
Baxter'smybaby's Avatar
Baxter'smybaby Baxter'smybaby is offline
swimming upstream
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: NY
Posts: 21,981

sooooo easy to be happy and upset at the same time---lots of reasons you could be feeling that way. I hope things work out --stinks to be conflicted like that.
Reply With Quote
Old 02-24-2012, 08:08 PM
Beanie's Avatar
Beanie Beanie is offline
Clicker Cult Coordinator
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Illinois
Posts: 14,007

Even good stress is still stress! It happens.

Auggie - The Flash RN NAJ MXP MJP CGC
Payton - Sharp Dressed Man NA NAJ NF CGC
Dagger Baby - coming 2016
& the pest, Georgie - Peach Pudding N Pie OA AXJ
The Sheltiechick Blog
Reply With Quote
Old 02-24-2012, 08:28 PM
jess2416's Avatar
jess2416 jess2416 is offline
Who woulda thought <3
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: NC
Posts: 22,560

thanks everyone

i went and had a good long talk with my aunt who is a psychologist (sp) and she said based on what i did tell her cause there is more going on than what i posted here (she has a strict policy against treating family lol but who could blame her).

anyhoo she said that our family has a history of depression and that it normally shows up in the woman in the 30's and that i could use a good therapist because i was having classic signs of depression and anxiety...
Reply With Quote
Old 02-24-2012, 08:38 PM
lizzybeth727's Avatar
lizzybeth727 lizzybeth727 is offline
Top Dog
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Central Texas
Posts: 6,403

Yep, that's possible. I've been depressed before, and it's horrible.... Even happy stuff makes you sad and anxious, and then you just get even more anxious over being unhappy.

Just remember that depression/anxiety is usually a chemical thing in your brain... not something you can easily control.
Reply With Quote
Old 02-26-2012, 11:56 AM
Renee750il's Avatar
Renee750il Renee750il is offline
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Where the selas blooms
Posts: 94,266

Change, even good change, can be stressful, especially for someone who doesn't readily embrace it or trust what it might bring. ((((((HUGS)))))) Princess
In a controversy the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves. ~Buddha

Stupid is the most notoriously incurable and contagious disease known to mankind. If you find yourself in close proximity to someone infected with stupid, walk away as soon as said infection is noted.

There are few things more nauseating than pure obedience. ~ Kvothe

***8206;"silence is the language of god, all else is poor translation."
Be a god. Know when to shut up.

Good Kharma Tags
Reply With Quote
Old 02-26-2012, 01:47 PM
skittledoo's Avatar
skittledoo skittledoo is offline
Internet Warrior Ballz?!?
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Northern Virginia
Posts: 13,663

Hugs!!!! I totally understand what it feels like to feel conflicting feelings like this. I hope you are able to find someone to help you out as your aunt suggested and know that you alaways have us chazzers by your side.
Joey- Ibizan Hound
Cricket- Mexican Street dog (we think Xolo mix)
Bamm- BC mix
Itztli- Standard size coated Xoloitzcuintli

Reply With Quote


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 08:54 AM.

1997-2013 Chazhound Dog Site