Meet the parents? Oh noes....

[AGonzalez]

So here's the deal. I mentioned I got a plane ticket to go to California to see my "friend" (ok, boyfriend, long story divorce is nearly final, etc).
Now I find out, I'm going to meet his parents. I'm scared shitless, I've never met parents before with any success, my last husbands parents are dead and the one before him, well I met them but they hated me.

Can we get some ideas of etiquette here?

Obviously here's what I've come up with so far:
1. Refrain from using the f-word and other words that are similarly offensive
2. Avoid politics, sex, and other discussions that are weird
3. Don't dress like a hooker

I have never talked to or met anyone I'm going to when I get there, so I'm definitely intimidated.

Any other suggestions?

[sparks19]

"hello Mr and Mrs *enter last name here* and keep with that until they tell you other wise

Please, thank you, can I help with anything etc.

Be personable without being IN YOUR FACE. Introduce yourself, shake hands, try to join in conversations when appropriate. don't just sit there completely silent. and SMILE

good luck

[AGonzalez]

Originally Posted by sparks19

"hello Mr and Mrs *enter last name here* and keep with that until they tell you other wise

yeah that's a stuck point, both his parents will be there but they are divorced...I am hoping it's only him that gets me at the airport so I can be briefed prior to the meeting, lol.

[Criosphynx]

how do they feel about tattoos? I know you have several...I'm not saying hide them forever, but it may be a good idea until you get to know them a bit better

ask them LOTS of questions. People are more likely to like YOU if you let them talk about themselves

[sparks19]

But yeah just try to be warm and friendly even if you are uncomfortable. I f you are uncomfortable and keep to yourself you might appear to be stand offish and might put others off of you.

[AGonzalez]

That's another point, I'm going to wear long sleeves to start out, at least let them get a good impression before they see my artwork

[M&M's Mommy]

1) Be polite
2) Be respectful
3) Be honest
4) Be yourself

[AGonzalez]

Originally Posted by M&M's Mommy

1) Be polite
2) Be respectful
3) Be honest
4) Be yourself

Honestly and respectful aren't a problem...but "be yourself" and "polite" don't really go together for me. I'm just concerned of being my usual tactless self.

[Jules]

How did I miss that you are getting divorced?

[GlassOnion]

Obviously here's what I've come up with so far:
1. Refrain from using the f-word and other words that are similarly offensive
2. Avoid politics, sex, and other discussions that are weird
3. Don't dress like a hooker

**** that's par for the course with my family. 'Cept maybe the last one, but that still stands in the extended family.