Another couple of threads prompted me to post this: Not every abuser demonstrates all of these things necessarily, I suspect. I was with someone who had narcisistic personality disorder and the gas lighting and many other things described was done. It is so incredibly easy for even someone with pretty good self esteem to be eroded because it is done so subtly, so incidiously, you don't even notice it at first. I did manage to see what was happening eventually and dumped his arse. But the damaging effects were astounding nevertheless.
I think it's important for anyone who suspects they're being abused, but may not have more than an inkling that this is so, to read up on some of this stuff so you might see yourself from an objective and factual perspective. When I was going through my turmoil, I read and read and read about narcisistic personality disorder. I could have a degree in narcisistic personality disorder. LOL. Just ask me anything. There are different personality disorders and psychoses that result in the same fate for victims. Anyhow, I thought this was a good article. I didn't read the whole thing. There are several pages.
If anyone has anything to add...their own knoweldge, experiences, articles, feel free to contribute. I think there are people here who can benefit from some exploration.
Inside the Mind of an Abuser: What you Need to Know
I think it's important for anyone who suspects they're being abused, but may not have more than an inkling that this is so, to read up on some of this stuff so you might see yourself from an objective and factual perspective. When I was going through my turmoil, I read and read and read about narcisistic personality disorder. I could have a degree in narcisistic personality disorder. LOL. Just ask me anything. There are different personality disorders and psychoses that result in the same fate for victims. Anyhow, I thought this was a good article. I didn't read the whole thing. There are several pages.
If anyone has anything to add...their own knoweldge, experiences, articles, feel free to contribute. I think there are people here who can benefit from some exploration.
Inside the Mind of an Abuser: What you Need to Know