Hello all,
I am new here, and came on the recommendation of my sister (who mostly lurks). Nice to meet you all!
We have a problem with one of our two dogs, and I am hoping that some of you can offer some advice. She is a 4 year old Staffordshire Bull Terrier that we've had since she was a puppy, but she never really seemed to fit in with our household and lifestyle. We researched the breed for months before deciding to get her, but though we thought we knew what to expect this dog seems to be a parody of her breed description.
Despite long daily walks, playtime, and plenty of toys, she is constantly getting into trouble. We've tried everything that we can to alleiviate her boredom (presumably, she is bored), but she still seems unhappy and keeps looking for things to get into. She is also VERY moody and aloof. She doesn't seem to like being around me, and usually leaves when I try to pet her or give her attention, and she often hides under the bed during the day. She is also extremely exciteable and difficult to calm down.
She has never been abused in any way, and we have only used gentle and encouraging training methods on her and tried our best to make her feel like one of the "pack". We have tried many different training techniques, though none of them have helped with the above behavior. She is highly intelligent and athletic, though, and knows a wide variety of commands and tricks.
We've had her for so long that it is hard to imagine not having her, but in all the time we've had her she has been a source of more stress and grief than a source of joy for us. She doesn't seem very happy with us either, and we really aren't happy with her, so at this point we are considering finding her a new home. Though it has been deeply ingrained in my family that when you buy a pet, it is for life, so we are hesitant to do this.
But getting her a new home really does seem like a reasonable thing to do . . . what do you guys think?
I am new here, and came on the recommendation of my sister (who mostly lurks). Nice to meet you all!
We have a problem with one of our two dogs, and I am hoping that some of you can offer some advice. She is a 4 year old Staffordshire Bull Terrier that we've had since she was a puppy, but she never really seemed to fit in with our household and lifestyle. We researched the breed for months before deciding to get her, but though we thought we knew what to expect this dog seems to be a parody of her breed description.
Despite long daily walks, playtime, and plenty of toys, she is constantly getting into trouble. We've tried everything that we can to alleiviate her boredom (presumably, she is bored), but she still seems unhappy and keeps looking for things to get into. She is also VERY moody and aloof. She doesn't seem to like being around me, and usually leaves when I try to pet her or give her attention, and she often hides under the bed during the day. She is also extremely exciteable and difficult to calm down.
She has never been abused in any way, and we have only used gentle and encouraging training methods on her and tried our best to make her feel like one of the "pack". We have tried many different training techniques, though none of them have helped with the above behavior. She is highly intelligent and athletic, though, and knows a wide variety of commands and tricks.
We've had her for so long that it is hard to imagine not having her, but in all the time we've had her she has been a source of more stress and grief than a source of joy for us. She doesn't seem very happy with us either, and we really aren't happy with her, so at this point we are considering finding her a new home. Though it has been deeply ingrained in my family that when you buy a pet, it is for life, so we are hesitant to do this.
But getting her a new home really does seem like a reasonable thing to do . . . what do you guys think?