Exercise question..

How do you get rid of 'love handles'? Do I do crunches? Is it possible to even get rid of them?!
I know I shouldn't be worried about this, but in the last month I've gained 20 pounds. It was definitely 20 pounds I desperately needed, but I gained it all in my stomach area and I look about 4 months pregnant. My stomach area is huge compared to my tiny little legs and arms..I look weird.
So I think I should start working out, not for weight loss, but to get toned I guess? Does anyone have any tips or suggestions? Thank you!

http://www.exrx.net/WeightTraining/Myths.html

It sounds like you'd benefit from weight training. The website that I linked has a ton of great info. It takes a while to research and learn, but that's your best bet for nice results.

Thank you!