First timer, so please bare with me. I'd really appreciate your objective replies about what to do with the following dog purchase problem.
My family bought a pure-bred, adult dog from a previous owner who has been breeding/showing this breed for 30-something years. I paid $200 when I picked up the dog. That same day I took her to my Vet to have checked out. I agreed to pay $200 more if she checked out okay.
Owner told me:
1. dog was "around"? three years old; was vague about birthdate
2. wasn't sure if she was up to date on shots, rabies & I'd have to do that
3. didn't have records, I'd have to track down from whoever her Vet was
4. she can't have puppies!
5. I must have her spayed!
6. I can't have her papers!
When I took her to my Vet:
1. had to get shots, rabies, etc., since we didn't have history on her
2. her teeth hadn't been taken care of and needed to be
3. had a slight cornea tear on both eyes which can happen with this breed
4. had tapeworms and I had to take her for two weeks of shots (I mentioned to previous owner-said she had seen her eat a flea off her body)
5. because she couldn't be spayed during tapeworm treatment shots, and after shots went into heat, we had to board her when we went out of town for Christmas. We couldn't take her with us in heat and a male dog would be where we were staying for several days.
Vet (who is my brother and his partner) thought it unusual that all these things hadn't been taken care of and that I'd be expected to do all this, especially after paying $200 and then she wanted $200 more ($400 total). We are inexperienced at this and later realized this wasn't a normal type of dog sale. It "seems" that "usually" the previous owner would have dog up to date on shots, spayed, records, no tapeworms, teeth cleaned, etc., before selling. Is that right?
I didn't pay the extra $200 and the previous owner called me demanding it. She turned into a crazy lady! She flippantly yelled that my brother (the Vet) should know this is all normal procedure and he should take care of all these things for free. She threatened to call him and give him a piece of her mind! She threatened to come to our house and take the dog (and of course not give us back the $200 we'd already paid her)! I told her she can't do that. Our children and us had already closely and lovingly bonded with the dog and that would be so wrong to do that to the dog and kids. She didn't care about that and just demanded her $200 more. She accused us of probably abusing her anyway (after she had previously admitted she wasn't able to take care of her and her 10+ other dogs at home, and that's why she was "selling" this one and some of her other dogs).
She also hurled other insults like accusing my husband and me of being con-artists and that we've probably conned other people too! Then blurting out, "how many other people have you conned!?" She viciously yelled accusations, lies and harassment at me and my family. I didn't know she could get so nasty over $200. She wasn't talking rationally or reasonably and wouldn't even consider what we'd been through. I was willing to negotiate down the remaining $200 but when she called and said all of this and more, and didn't even give me chance, I figured that was that and I wasn't going to pay her anything else. My husband vehmently agreed and said if she shows up at our house, we'll call the police, and she can go ahead and file a claim against us.
Thanks for your feedback!
My family bought a pure-bred, adult dog from a previous owner who has been breeding/showing this breed for 30-something years. I paid $200 when I picked up the dog. That same day I took her to my Vet to have checked out. I agreed to pay $200 more if she checked out okay.
Owner told me:
1. dog was "around"? three years old; was vague about birthdate
2. wasn't sure if she was up to date on shots, rabies & I'd have to do that
3. didn't have records, I'd have to track down from whoever her Vet was
4. she can't have puppies!
5. I must have her spayed!
6. I can't have her papers!
When I took her to my Vet:
1. had to get shots, rabies, etc., since we didn't have history on her
2. her teeth hadn't been taken care of and needed to be
3. had a slight cornea tear on both eyes which can happen with this breed
4. had tapeworms and I had to take her for two weeks of shots (I mentioned to previous owner-said she had seen her eat a flea off her body)
5. because she couldn't be spayed during tapeworm treatment shots, and after shots went into heat, we had to board her when we went out of town for Christmas. We couldn't take her with us in heat and a male dog would be where we were staying for several days.
Vet (who is my brother and his partner) thought it unusual that all these things hadn't been taken care of and that I'd be expected to do all this, especially after paying $200 and then she wanted $200 more ($400 total). We are inexperienced at this and later realized this wasn't a normal type of dog sale. It "seems" that "usually" the previous owner would have dog up to date on shots, spayed, records, no tapeworms, teeth cleaned, etc., before selling. Is that right?
I didn't pay the extra $200 and the previous owner called me demanding it. She turned into a crazy lady! She flippantly yelled that my brother (the Vet) should know this is all normal procedure and he should take care of all these things for free. She threatened to call him and give him a piece of her mind! She threatened to come to our house and take the dog (and of course not give us back the $200 we'd already paid her)! I told her she can't do that. Our children and us had already closely and lovingly bonded with the dog and that would be so wrong to do that to the dog and kids. She didn't care about that and just demanded her $200 more. She accused us of probably abusing her anyway (after she had previously admitted she wasn't able to take care of her and her 10+ other dogs at home, and that's why she was "selling" this one and some of her other dogs).
She also hurled other insults like accusing my husband and me of being con-artists and that we've probably conned other people too! Then blurting out, "how many other people have you conned!?" She viciously yelled accusations, lies and harassment at me and my family. I didn't know she could get so nasty over $200. She wasn't talking rationally or reasonably and wouldn't even consider what we'd been through. I was willing to negotiate down the remaining $200 but when she called and said all of this and more, and didn't even give me chance, I figured that was that and I wasn't going to pay her anything else. My husband vehmently agreed and said if she shows up at our house, we'll call the police, and she can go ahead and file a claim against us.
Thanks for your feedback!