Despite everything going on, the boyfriend has been pretty amazing the last few days. He has been trying so hard to let me have my space and make peace with everything. He isn't pushing for me to regain my friendship with his ex, he has been focusing his time to moving the last of our stuff and talking it easy himself, leaving the rest to bring back a strong foundation of friendship for us and our relationship.
And the being sick thing goes above and beyond what I would expect. Staying on top of me about vitamins, eating, taking meds and keeping a hellacious fever in check. Bringing me food, soup, coffee, tea.
Sigh.