The Venting Thread

Why ask my advice if you're just going to tell me I can't possibly understand because I haven't squeezed a child out my vagina?!!

You came to me kiddo, I didn't ask to be your therapist. I know what I'm talking about and trust me, if you want to see if I'm wrong and ignore my advice then its no skin off my nose. Its your life and your kid. Go right ahead. But don't ask my opinions then try and debate with me how I can't possibly know what I'm talking about. Why the eff ask me in the effing first place then??!!

And while we are at it, you only ever contact me over your issues and trauma. Next time maybe ask how I'm doing, ok?????

Gar. Rant over.

****. ;( What'd you do? (If you don't mind me asking) Hope it heals fast! Is it your dominant hand?

Tried to catch a falling box, got hit instead.

Luckily, it's not my dominant hand, and luckily I already have time planned off work.

Oh jeez! Well that is lucky, but I imagine you probably had the time off to relax or do something, not worry about a wrist fracture.

People who are constantly complaining about their romantic partners.

You don't have to be in a relationship with your significant other. You don't have to deal with that person's ****. You choose to. It's annoying as hell for you to constantly be talking about all the things you don't like about whatever person that you're intimately involved with. Especially to the same people constantly/on a public forum like facebook.

It makes you seem like an ass, a pathetic, untrustworthy whiney ass who allows her/his own life to suck just because you're... what? afraid of change? I get that, but if you're constantly unhappy, ****ing leave. Or don't.
But either way, stop talking about how you're unhappy. Accept the decisions you choose to make again and again, every **** day.

Worse yet, people who ask for others to not pass judgement or have an opinion about said relationship. You've spent HOURS,DAYS, bitching about this person and basically laying your dirty laundry out to dry for all to see. You MADE your personal life public, so yea, enjoy people treating it like it's people magazine.

Whinewhine I really don't want to go running. It's too warm. Meh.

blegh spring cleaning. There is no way I am going to get it all done today and my house looks like a disaster right now. I keep reminding myself that it must get worse before it gets better and even though it LOOKS less cluttered whenever I shove as many things in drawers as possible, I still have too much clutter. So taking a good look at everything I own will be good in the long run.

But it sucks right now.

**** it, I think I lost a friend over a training issue.

I KNOW, she probably was not a good friend to have if at the first sign of disagreement she flaked out, but I don't have tons of friends, and I am feeling her loss today.

And one of my baby chicks died.

Oh god, dilly dallyers in Boston just kill me. Kill me. You've got that, and then you got the ones that are walking right in front of you on a narrow pass going "Lah dee dah".

THANK YOU. lowercase.

Garage door broke. Everything has to go through the house

House is filling up with bikes since the door between the garage and house is terrible.

Ugh YES.

Nothing annoys me more than people who badmouth their SO in public forums. "They don't love me enough and do everythig I want them to so I am going blast them all over the place because they are a horrible failure"

Yeah gee I wonder why your relationship sucks. The fact that it's OK to talk about someone you claim to love the way people do ... Why would you want to hurt them like that? They may, in fact, suck but either deal with them, bail out or SHUT UP because blasting them in public makes you SUCK TOO.

You can't complain about your SO not respecting you while you completely disrespect them.

I don't really agree with you guys. I blasted Jin on here for months before I got out of the relationship. But I honestly had no where to go. No money, no family, no job, nothing to my name. I chose to stay...sure. And I was miserable every second. Because I didn't have a choice, and it was the only way I could get anything out because I was isolated in a house 24/7.

Are there crappy relationship out there with just plain crappy people, regardless of abuse or not? Sure. But I think it's just as shitty to badmouth people you don't have a clue about. Passing judgement on anyone makes you suck just as bad. And that's my vent for today.

One of my water hoses in my car burst, and I've been stuck by the river for an hour. I HAVE SO MUCH **** TO DO, I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS!!!!

I would like another week of vacation, please.

I'm sorry, friend. That sucks, on both counts.

Been kinda lonely lately.

That's my point though....

Not someone you just can't get away from (been there and done that and still have nightmares of being stuck there) but someone you claim to love and have a relationship with.

It's one thing to be stuck in a relationship... I know. It's another to claim you love that person and then blast them. A friend of mine regularly would post on facebook about her husband beig a failure of a man. I am not kidding she would actually say "husbands name is a failure". Now she has Cancer and that "failure" is her strong hold. He is holding down the fort, working, takig care of the kids and supporting her in every way he can. He is her knight in shining armor right now and she realizes now how her actions affected their relationship.

It's one thing to be stuck with someone ypu don't love... It's another to claim you love someone only to treat them like dog crap on your shoes and then wonder why they aren't receptive.

My husband and I have our moments but they are NOT made public. They shouldn't be. When we have an issue with each other we take it up with each other. We don't go to facebook to air it, we go to the source to solve it.

Super super sore today. Finally around 2PM I took a fistful of drugs and went to Target, but I don't like their produce and I didn't feel up to going to the grocery store. So I have no food.

I ended up in my dad's recliner in the living room for the rest of the evening. Asked my mom what she was thinking about for dinner and she said "I made you lunch! And bought you lunch yesterday!" Oh. I see. I will remember that next time she has surgery and can't get around well... I owe her two lunches then I'm out.


On top of that, last night I went out with my agility friends (the local trial is this weekend, obviously I didn't go to the trial but I told them I wanted to go to dinner and socialize.) I told the out of towners who didn't know that I had done a half-marathon that morning and one of them said "Wow! Congratulations! We're proud of you! You should be really proud of yourself!" I almost cried because outside of a few of you here who have been awesome and a handful of people on Facebook, really nobody has said anything like that. Especially not "we're proud of you!"
I mentioned to my mom that so-and-so said this and I was really touched because nobody else had really told me that. This is clearly her cue to say SHE'S proud of me, right?
Nope. Of course not.

My aunt called to ask my dad to look at her tires tomorrow before she drives my grandma to Indianapolis to visit an eye specialist. She didn't ask to talk to me and tell me "good job" on my race even though I know she knows I ran it since I have for the last four years, and the results are printed in the newspaper.


So many times I wish I could just ragequit my family.

Frustrating call.
Bashed my head on the desk a few times after I got off the call.
Now it hurts. More than it already hurt.