Suzanne Clothier's "Bones should rain from the sky" A delightful book.
I agree that if someone is offended by Culture Clash, they are probably the ones who feel defensive because defensiveness comes from feeling attacked or criticised. And she does lay on a little sarcasm which I find entertaining and right to the point. She's a straight shooter. She doesn't mince words and personally, I like that. For instance, she is talking about myths and in one place she says something like, "And here's another one. Don't let your dog go out the door first or he is being dominant. Now, who ever came up with that one? Isn't it just possible that he is a dog and something in his environment is very interesting to him and his owner never gave him a reason to wait at the door?" Something like that. So, she has that edge. I have the 2nd addition. I highly recommend Culture Clash to be read first too because you'll learn a lot more than technique as you do in a lot of other books. The only thing negative that I can say about the book is that I didn't read it a long time ago. LOL.