I keep waiting for my hot guy with a border collie to show up to an agility event.
I am waiting for the EXACT SAME THING... hahahaha. Actually I have a list of breeds he can show up with and I'd be cool with, LOL, mostly herding breeds... a corgi is acceptable...
I started going to my new church because I knew they had a big young adult presence and a lot of small groups/small group events. Turn out "young adult" is ages 20-30. Umm, I'm 28! What happens in two years?? I still feel like I'm a young adult, people! They don't really have a "30 Somethings" group. From there you basically would get dumped into a "women's group" which TBH makes me think of a bunch of stuff I wouldn't have anything in common with... sitting around talking about their families and kids... which I have none of that.
Honestly I'm kind of considering talking to the church about helping me start a "30-Somethings" small group. I can't be the only person there who's no longer a college kid and yet doesn't feel like An Older Adult yet... the girl I talked to last weekend told me there ARE some older 20's in the young adult small groups but it sounds like it's really more College Kids Small Group... geh. There SHOULD be something in the middle here and I'm wondering if maybe it's just not my call to start it up?
I did think of trying another church in the area, but I really like this one. I just hoped to be able to find friends (and I'll be honest, a future husband) there and I'm starting to wonder if that won't work out the way I pictured...
So no real advice, just I hear you. I do agree about maybe asking if they can do social events later or proposing to organize one yourself? Not sure if you would have the time to do that with your otherwise busy schedule though.