This statement makes me very, very sad.
All women are real. What they wear and who they choose to be is their decision.
I think that women do so much harm to other women... real women wear makeup, real women don't wear makeup, real women have curves, real women are tall and thin, real women should get dirty and work hard, real women should always look their best, etc, etc.
EVERY WOMAN IS A REAL WOMAN... it doesn't matter if you're feminine or tomboyish, or even if you were BORN a women or BECAME one later on (transgendered). If you identify with the female gender, you are a real woman.
Once we stop setting up EVERY woman to fail at being a "real woman," maybe we can move on from this.
Anyway, I definitely believe that "attractive" people are treated differently. I worked at Hollister for less than 2 weeks and had a major reality check on how people were treated. They had to have a certain amount of people for their weekly "group" interviews, and knew who would get a call back before they could even open their mouths.
I even encountered this in my professional life less than a month ago... and it makes me very sad.
Of course we all form first impressions of people... it's hard not to. I notice when someone is physically attractive from the very beginning, but there are SO many other things that make someone more or less attractive. Liking the same books, shows, hobbies... being well spoken, educated, etc, etc, etc... can make the ugliest person attractive!