OH oftentimes doesn't back me up emotionally when I need him to (not necessarily agreeing with me in my thoughts/feelings/actions) like today, I told him about our new boss (he's a little weird, like he's really OCD, everything-in-its-place kind of person ... It's hard to explain him unless you see what I'm talking about) today I was taking the saddle off my pony (he works hard & deserves to be unsaddled right away IMHO).
He didn't say anything to me, but I could tell he (our boss) was not happy I chose to care for my horse instead of helping him & OH feed ... I mean ... How many ppl does he think it takes to feed 7 horses ???
OH didn't see it, but when I told him about it he was like "we'll you could have just taken the saddle off & come to help us." I didn't say anything else, but it kind of hurt that he didn't at least be understanding about it ... But if I tell him how it makes me feel he will go off on this "well this is our job ... When you work for someone" kick :/.
Of course when HE gets pisses at something this guy does I always am supportive, even if I don't agree with his reasoning. ll I was looking for was the same thing.
The next time HE complains about something this boss of ours does or how he has to do something then I will give him the same speech he does me & we'll see how he likes the shoe on the other foot.
Another thing, he always is accusing me of being irritated, he'll say that he wants to pony instead of ride (but he will say to get the horses "ready" he never says ready for WHAT :wall: ) Ill be like ... "Oh ... Ok" but he he doesn't like the tone I use he'll say not to "start" that the whole day is ruined when I "get an attitude" I always tell him "don't worry if I get pissed you'll know lol" but he doesn't see himself ... In reality HE is the bitchy one :/