OMG! I'm so sorry I missed this thread. I just don't go on Rainbow bridge that often. I'm so shocked and saddened that Phoebe is gone. She was so loved and cherished member of your family. My heart breaks for you and your whole family. (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) I know too well how hard this is. And I wish you peace and some kind of acceptance in the coming months.
RIP dear Phoebe.