I think it's hard for anyone to say "I would have done xxxx" when we haven't necessarily been in that situation. From the outside it's easy to say what would have been the best decision, but emotions really cloud judgment.
Hugs to your roommate, Dreeza. It's an awful decision to have to make, and I hope that it all works out in the end.
Hugs to your roommate, Dreeza. It's an awful decision to have to make, and I hope that it all works out in the end.