After perusing 50 pages of forums on training, I've concluded this subject isn't out there. Great forum, members and responses by the way.
I'm in love with her, and she's supposed to be moving in, but her 10 year old German Shephard is not comfortable when visiting.
I've always had a dog, and really welcome having a dog in the house again.
I've supplied a crate, surrounded on three sides w/ cloth, and he adapts well to that, and likes it and feels safe, and eats well when visiting.
He seems better when she's not around, and when comes home, the dog is ready to go-back to her house, or somewhere else, she's nervous about it, the dog picks up on it, and things escalate downhill from there.
He is skiddish, and afraid of things like the microwave beeping, and generally uncomfortable. Sometimes doesn't want to go near kitchen, nor that side of house, away from the entry door. We've brought his blanket for sleeping from her house, and he likes it, but always acts like he's ready to leave. Nervouse, pacing, and always laying by the door. At her house, the fenced back yard is accessed by the kitchen, my house, the outside is accessed through the back garage door. He always goes by her car, and doesn't want to come back in, and thinks he should be going. Also starts shaking when brought back into house. She really feels he is afraid of something in the house. This really freaks her out, and it may be too much for her. I really love her, love the dog, but need him to get used to house, and quick, before this becomes a bigger thing than it is already.
She's just about ready to condemn the whole plan, as she couldn't stand to be without her dog, nor would I want her to.
I've played with him, and we get along fine at her house. We play a little at my house. He's her baby, and is a little spoiled, but very well behaved. He can have run of house, but when I come home, I find him in kennel, or on his blanket.
To make things worse, her ex has part-time custody of the dog.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
save a relationship of two people in love that belong together, and help me get the dog comfortable in my house-and QUICK!
Thanks in advance
I'm in love with her, and she's supposed to be moving in, but her 10 year old German Shephard is not comfortable when visiting.
I've always had a dog, and really welcome having a dog in the house again.
I've supplied a crate, surrounded on three sides w/ cloth, and he adapts well to that, and likes it and feels safe, and eats well when visiting.
He seems better when she's not around, and when comes home, the dog is ready to go-back to her house, or somewhere else, she's nervous about it, the dog picks up on it, and things escalate downhill from there.
He is skiddish, and afraid of things like the microwave beeping, and generally uncomfortable. Sometimes doesn't want to go near kitchen, nor that side of house, away from the entry door. We've brought his blanket for sleeping from her house, and he likes it, but always acts like he's ready to leave. Nervouse, pacing, and always laying by the door. At her house, the fenced back yard is accessed by the kitchen, my house, the outside is accessed through the back garage door. He always goes by her car, and doesn't want to come back in, and thinks he should be going. Also starts shaking when brought back into house. She really feels he is afraid of something in the house. This really freaks her out, and it may be too much for her. I really love her, love the dog, but need him to get used to house, and quick, before this becomes a bigger thing than it is already.
She's just about ready to condemn the whole plan, as she couldn't stand to be without her dog, nor would I want her to.
I've played with him, and we get along fine at her house. We play a little at my house. He's her baby, and is a little spoiled, but very well behaved. He can have run of house, but when I come home, I find him in kennel, or on his blanket.
To make things worse, her ex has part-time custody of the dog.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
save a relationship of two people in love that belong together, and help me get the dog comfortable in my house-and QUICK!
Thanks in advance