I can attest to a Westie. Nora won't sit still to save her life. I love her personality though. Very very fiesty! She won't take any crud from anyone or anything, lol. You know, people think with their short legs that they wouldn't run very fast. Can't be further than the truth! If she takes off, there is no catching up or stopping her. Westie's are better with adults then kids. Although I have older kids, it sounds like you would have the most contact or caregiving. You really need to know how to handle them. Like other's have said, every dog needs to get exercise every day. Anything short would not be fair to the dog. I think you should wait a while before seriously thinking of getting a dog. It can not be a fly-by decision.