He keeps saying he just wants a massage for Christmas. He means from me and he's just trying to be sweet so I'll shut up with my fretting about Christmas gifts, but I thought we could go get a massage together. Is that odd? I would accompany him (just selflessly wanting him to have company of course ).
Second question is if I found a student clinic that is half the price of a professional massage clinic for the same amount of time (and thus, I could afford a massage that would be twice as long), would it be odd to gift someone with a non-professional massage? I expect that it would not have the romantic feel of a professional place, but that might actually be less awkward, so I'm not necessarily considering that a negative. Keep in mind we are both freshly out of school and integrated into the working world (and I'm a bit tight on change), so I'm not just trying to be cheap when I can afford more. At the same time, I don't want to come off as being cheap. Does that make sense?
Input please (especially from the gentlemen on the forum [if there are any of you out there])!
Second question is if I found a student clinic that is half the price of a professional massage clinic for the same amount of time (and thus, I could afford a massage that would be twice as long), would it be odd to gift someone with a non-professional massage? I expect that it would not have the romantic feel of a professional place, but that might actually be less awkward, so I'm not necessarily considering that a negative. Keep in mind we are both freshly out of school and integrated into the working world (and I'm a bit tight on change), so I'm not just trying to be cheap when I can afford more. At the same time, I don't want to come off as being cheap. Does that make sense?
Input please (especially from the gentlemen on the forum [if there are any of you out there])!