Does the one you use come in multiple sizes? I still use the size 1 diva cup after giving birth, I think it has more to do with cervix size but if you go smaller it might help
I forgot what size cup I have, I bought it ages ago lol. If I try again I'll try to find an easier one maybe. Seriously, I'm still horribly sore tonight, it sucks.
And yeah, I've tried pretty much every single fold I've seen online, lol. I can put my fingers outside of the cup when it's inside but it's so tight there, I guess there's just no room for it to open.
I went anyway, but I had to stay on the side and it was pretty stressful for me, but at least they had fun...