I've never understood, why schools get their noses in brought lunches when school lunches are HORRIBLE. I remember at my elementary school pizza or foot long hot dogs were a regular. Not very healthy. Or pp&j was always an option.
I remember being told off by a teacher, because I always had cereal with yogurt for lunch. My mom & I always had cereal and yogurt at home for lunch... I just wasn't huge on sandwiches. ^^
My personal favorite at my school cafeteria was french fries and gravy lol. It was so good but definitely not the healthiest option I could have chosen. But I loved it and had it almost everyday lol. We also had THE BEST chocolate chip cookies... I actually still have dreams that I am eating one of those cookies. First thing in the morning they were still warm.
Oh man... I'm obviously hungry right now lol
I send Hannah to school usually with A cream cheese and strawberry jam sandwich (no peanut butter allowed because of the risk of allergic reaction in other kids and she won't eat meat on sandwiches), a granola bar and then usually a fruit cup or yogurt or something and usually at least one of those items comes back to me at the end of the day because she doesn't usually need that much food in one sitting and some days she just doesn't want fruit. The healthiest lunch? no probably not but there isn't anything WRONG with it. it's not insufficient.
In the case of children who are starving that's one thing but I just find it a tremendous waste of food, money and resources to expect preschool aged children to eat a serving of meat, fruit, two veggies and milk at one sitting. there is no WAY Hannah could ever eat that much in one sitting. hannah usually is good for one BIG meal a day. some days that is lunch and some days that is dinner. if she has a big meal for lunch she won't eat much for dinner. she'll just eat small meals/snacks throughout the rest of the day. she has a tiny belly... how much can it hold all at once.
I do remember one time though I made my lunch for school (I always made my own lunch once I was old enough... around 7 or 8) and I made myself a chocolate chip cookie sandwich lol. two slices of buttered bread and a giant chocolate chip cookie in between the bread (you know... it was actually really good LOL). If I brought that to school today my mom would be up on charges or something lol but really what was the big deal? I obviously wasn't being starved (like I said in the case of starvation that's different) I just felt like having a chocolate chip cookie sandwich one day lol.
I think schools need to sometimes know when to pick their battles. child being starved or malnurished? Yes... big problem. A child with a sandwich and a twinkie for a snack... NOT a big problem. it just seems along the lines of the kindergartener that was pulled out of class for sexual assault because they gave their friend a hug.
Do elementary schools have cafeterias here? I know our school didn't. we had a little concession stand where they sold cookies and drinks and chips and stuff but that was about it and they also had pizza when it was Pizza Day but other than that if you wanted lunch you had to bring it from home. It wasn't until highschool that we had a cafeteria. And I had a job in highschool so even though my dad bought all kinds of stuff for my lunches I usually just used my own money to buy french fries and gravy (and the best chocolate chip cookies on the planet lol)
I will say there was one time that I forgot my lunch on the counter at home and they called my mom to have her bring it to me or give permission for me to leave school property to get lunch (small town lol). So they didn't ignore it if you didn't have a lunch at all but other than that they pretty much left it alone.