Why We Donít Step In and Spank When Members Bicker
Most of the time when there is bickering and picking going on you all manage to work it out among yourselves with only a nudge here and there from the moderators.
And thatís as it should be - here.
There are plenty of places on the internet where the moderators keep viewpoints within a narrow range and set circumscribed boundaries for posting, and those places are fine, if youíre happy to hand over your rights to think and express yourself when you have a differing opinion, point of view, set of experiences so that no one gets their toes stepped on or their nose out of joint or has to be exposed to anyone elseís take on a subject. Itís also a good way to run things so that no one learns anything from anyone else, or is forced to examine their own set of opinions and beliefs or even has to stretch a tad to express themselves more clearly. Great places for the self-absorbed, the self-important to define and the rest to bleat in unison.
But thatís just not us.
Sure, itís a pain in the ass to moderate some of the prize fights here. But itís rare - if ever - that at least some of the participants donít come out a little smarter, a little more thoughtful, a little more understanding and a little better as people when the final bell rings.
And when all is said and done, and one of us is falling apart, often it's the person who has been in the ring with that one and gone at it the hardest is one of the first to give a cyber-hug and a cyber-shoulder.
Now, tell me, what could be wrong with that?
In a controversy the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves. ~Buddha
Stupid is the most notoriously incurable and contagious disease known to mankind. If you find yourself in close proximity to someone infected with stupid, walk away as soon as said infection is noted.
There are few things more nauseating than pure obedience. ~ Kvothe
***8206;"silence is the language of god, all else is poor translation."
Be a god. Know when to shut up.
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