I too just read through the spay thread. WOW! Seems I was blasted as well. Oh well BUT, for the record, so its clear again.....
MY Zoey was put under and went into cardiac arrest while UNDER. The Vet didn't even have her completely sewed back up after the C section before she went. He had to quickly react - get her breathing and stable.
Do you think he should have called me in between CPR and ask if I'd like her spayed??? I think not.
Also, yes I'd like her spayed. But now I'm petrified of her being under. Is this not understandable??? Geesh!