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Old 07-25-2013, 04:20 PM
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This isn't a vent or really anything it's just weighing on my mind. I feel silly because its a good friend of one of my good friends so its not like ts even really to do with me but its just sad and makes me wonder what went so wrong.

My friend's best friend got married in the spring. My friend was in the wedding as a bridesmaid. All good. The newly married girl discovered she was pregnant and then a week later her husband committed suicide.

I just....don't even know what to say. I just can't even comprehend.
Wow... OMG. That is so sad. =<
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Old 07-25-2013, 04:31 PM
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I know, it's been upsetting me all day to even think about. The whole thing is just beyond my ability to understand. I can't even imagine what she's going through.
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Old 07-25-2013, 05:31 PM
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Chris and I are in this limbo stage. We're not together. But we still, for the most part, act like a couple. Its not freaking me out now, but I don't know how much longer that will last. I don't think either of us know what we want. I never saw myself as a friend's with benefits kind of girl. I'm not sure what to think of myself. Or my situation. Meh.
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Old 07-25-2013, 07:10 PM
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So I've been seeing this guy, it's fun, it's all good... But I'm super uncomfortable with him always paying. Even though he insists. I dunno. It makes me feel really bad. We went to a very trendy and pretty expensive bar last night and I just... feel bad that he paid for the whole thing. :/

Weird?
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Old 07-25-2013, 07:16 PM
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So I've been seeing this guy, it's fun, it's all good... But I'm super uncomfortable with him always paying. Even though he insists. I dunno. It makes me feel really bad. We went to a very trendy and pretty expensive bar last night and I just... feel bad that he paid for the whole thing. :/

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I don't think it's strange that you're uncomfortable with it. I'm the same way, it took my boyfriend a little while to get use to it though as he grew up in a traditional "guy pays for everything on dates" type place. If it were me, I'd say next time just tell the guy that you really want to pay for the date this time, or if you are the one to decide were to go then it might be easier for you to pay without issues.
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Old 07-25-2013, 07:23 PM
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So I've been seeing this guy, it's fun, it's all good... But I'm super uncomfortable with him always paying. Even though he insists. I dunno. It makes me feel really bad. We went to a very trendy and pretty expensive bar last night and I just... feel bad that he paid for the whole thing. :/

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I totally muscled in ahead of my now DH on our first date so I could pay for myself (our first date was at a sandwich shop). LOL Totally caught him off guard. I think it's worth suggesting a date and making clear you'll pay ahead of time - so many guys have been taught to always pay that they do it without a thought.
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Old 07-25-2013, 07:27 PM
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Thanks for the ideas, guys. Glad it's not just me. LOL
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I have to assist with an orthopedic surgery tomorrow, which I've never done before and I'm just kind of like.... gah. There is really nothing I dislike more than not knowing what I'm doing. I'm not necessarily nervous about it, I'm just not looking forward to it lol. Just hope the surgeon is cool about guiding me and that I don't feel too stupid!
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Old 07-25-2013, 10:55 PM
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I hate orthopedic surgeries. I always try to trade off if one falls on my surgery day.
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Old 07-26-2013, 01:25 PM
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Thankfully it went fine! But I don't want to do another one any time soon lol. Too much involved.
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