I am in a very similar boat as you, only not to such an extreme. I also have PCOS, and my husband and I are working with fertility doctors to try and get me pregnant by the end of summer. Charlotte we know would be absolutely no problem at all with an infant or young children, but with Ma'ii it's hard to say. He has a pretty strong prey drive, and can be touchy at times. We've tested him out on toddlers before, and he seemed to be okay, like he acknowledged they were just a very small person, lol. But a couple times here and there in public for a few minutes doesn't say how he'd behave LIVING with a young child.
He's never behaved badly around the few children he's met though, so I figure he atleast deserves a chance to prove himself. Of course my children will always come first, and I'll do whatever I have to in order to protect them, but I still love my dogs and will do whatever I can to make things work.
"Ma'ii is always out there, waiting. And Ma'ii is always hungry." - Navajo proverb