The Venting Thread

[~Jessie~]

Originally Posted by AdrianneIsabel

Well, I propose she delete me on FB, put me on ignore here, and stick around. I have no personal issue with her and it upsets me to see her, or anyone, leave the forum because of a discussion which was civil yet a hot button.

People opposing your view aren't exactly out there to hurt you. I can get very heated about things and I can get equally hurt. Heck, I did leave the pit bull forums over holier than thou training opinions and slanderous infighting which plays a part in destroying the breed. That said I don't think, thus far, this forum has ever crossed over into such a harmful area of forum use.

My vent would be people making an effort to make others feel guilty for speaking their minds, no matter how wrong the opposition feels they are. Sometimes "just shut up, I'm right" is the air on forums and I really appreciate that this is one that doesn't take kindly to such impressions.

[AllieMackie]

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

[SaraB]

Originally Posted by AllieMackie

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

That sounds awful. I'm so sorry you and Matt are going through this (not meant as a couple, but both independently).

[AdrianneIsabel]

Originally Posted by AllieMackie

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

****, I'm so sorry.

[Beanie]

Originally Posted by AllieMackie

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

((((((HUGS))))))

Maybe the relationship counselor will be able to get it through to him, as well as help you guys both just... move on and start healing.

[AllieMackie]

Thanks everyone. I knew the process would be long and tough, it's not easy when you're in the deepest depths of it.

This too shall pass. I am a rock in a river.

[joce]

Originally Posted by AllieMackie

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

Can you just break contact from him? Its really the only way for the person not over it to get over it.

Friends with exs doesn't work for all. It just can't. at least not after a long long break.

Sorry your having to go through this.

[AllieMackie]

Originally Posted by joce

Can you just break contact from him? Its really the only way for the person not over it to get over it.

Friends with exs doesn't work for all. It just can't. at least not after a long long break.

Sorry your having to go through this.

We live together. My pets and my work are here (not to mention I'm the homeowner) and he has nowhere to go. His parents are nuts and his friends are all living with parents.

We're going to figure something out so that he doesn't have to be here, but it's not an easy matter.

[yv0nne]

That sucks& is a really, really tough situation. Sorry you`re going through that.

Penn& I just came back from the vet. $155 later, she has a yeast infection in her left ear. My poor baby girl ..I feel like a bad dog momma!

[~Jessie~]

Lots and lots of ((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))), Allie