When you have a disagreement/fight with your SO...
How does the 'guilty party' normally make it up?
Do you (or they) expect a gift? Labor/service of some sort? Does an apology cover it.........how about after they've let it go on for a week or more?
When Kevin and I disagree, a gift is not an acceptable choice because any time I look at it I just think of why I have it. We joke about it....*out shopping, see HUGE diamond and say* Uh ya, next time you screw up......... But the reality is I would/could never enjoy it for a minute so what's the point?
I see other couples give gifts as apologies and I don't know how they do it, I wish I could.........Kevin wishes I could too 'cause it's easier for him than saying he was wrong, LOL