Need "family" advice.

[noludoru]

Do I get two opinions?

1.) You're an adult. You get to do what you want to do with your life. You don't have to see her or associate with her if you don't want to, and you don't have to explain yourself to us if you don't want to.

2.) I would personally go for it. It's just lunch, and it may be an opportunity for you. For all you know there's a great relationship there just waiting to happen. You'll never know if you don't try it.

Both are valid directions to go in. It's really up to you.

[spiffy]

I came from a BIG family and I would naturally advice you to try to give it a shot. If it pans out well and good. If not, your giving the relationship a chance to develop would prevent you from wondering about "what might have been".