Stephy's midnight musings/updates

[-bogart-]

Originally Posted by sillysally

Honestly, I think your way more bent out of shape about this phone thing than the OP is.....

Probably so . But hate that Chaz is becoming a horrid place . I was part of a gang up thread years ago and regret it to this day. Search out the Pam puppy debacle. I was a viscious bitch and helped run her off and regret that I did that and made her feel that away. So everytime I see the same thing happen ,it gets my hackles up.

[Twin_Dogs]

So it's wrong to say things as it is BUT you guys calling me rude, disgusting and jackass is alright. Funny how the world works my Chaz life has come full circle

[Renee750il]

Originally Posted by Red Chrome

What she needs is a counselor, therapist and good real life friends.....not a dog forum of strangers.

. . .

But posting on a dog forum isn't the kind of help she needs.

Chaz USED to be the kind of place where this was manifestly not true.

Originally Posted by sillysally

Don't complain in detail on the web about being penniless and people won't post suggestions, both friendly and unfriendly, for getting out of that state. Problem solved.

Yes, exactly.

Originally Posted by darkchild16

You don't know EVERY detail of someones life from the internet. Just sayin'

Absolutely, but on the internet, we only know people by what they post. That means if you post pages upon pages detailing how you're so broke and miserable that you can hardly afford to wipe your own ass and are waiting for money from friends, then turn around and post about your $80 cell phone bill, that might just raise a few eyebrows.

Originally Posted by -bogart-

Easy peasy don't clicky if ya think she is a liar .

Yes, bogart, that's definitely the most intellectually sound piece of advice I've heard thus far. That attitude is exactly why a certain notorious sighthound person has been allowed to run rampant on other forums after being outed on this one.

[Twin_Dogs]

Originally Posted by Doberluv

p.s. not to say you're a dog Steph. LOL. You're actually very pretty. Well, wait! Dogs are pretty too. Okay, I mean...*tries to get foot out of mouth* what people mean when they call another person a dog. But you know what I mean, right....a metaphor wasn't it?

Oh so you guys met in real life? Or you've seen her real life photo? Coz if you are saying she's very pretty because of her profile pic I'd have to agree. Coz that girl in the pic is one of my personal fave. Very talented as well can't blame Steph for being a fan.

[Red Chrome]

Originally Posted by Renee750il

Chaz USED to be the kind of place where this was manifestly not true.

I'm really not trying to be rude. I think her situation sucks. I'm just saying there are some things that can be changed by her that may make her life easier.

Originally Posted by Renee750il

Chaz USED to be the kind of place where this was manifestly not true.

So you're saying that Chaz used to be the kind of place that believed everything they read on the internet, never questioned or challenged inconsistencies in others' stories and allowed individuals to potentially prey upon other members? If that's the case, I for one am glad I didn't become a member until fairly recently. I was under the impression that this was one of the few forums that has always given that freedom.

[-bogart-]

Originally Posted by SevenSins

Yes, exactly.



Absolutely, but on the internet, we only know people by what they post. That means if you post pages upon pages detailing how you're so broke and miserable that you can hardly afford to wipe your own ass and are waiting for money from friends, then turn around and post about your $80 cell phone bill, that might just raise a few eyebrows.



Yes, bogart, that's definitely the most intellectually sound piece of advice I've heard thus far.

Ya see that's one thing. I don't try to sound intellectual. I know how smart or dumb I am. No one has to point it out. Why are you here ? I am sure she has heard you think she needs a shrink a hospital and a job. Why keep typing The same thing over and over and ruining each new thread

[Beanie]

Originally Posted by -bogart-

But hate that Chaz is becoming a horrid place . I was part of a gang up thread years ago and regret it to this day.

The truth is Chaz has ALWAYS been this way. You just said yourself there was a gang up thread years ago. Same ****, different day, many of the same players though some would like to pretend that's not so.

[-bogart-]

Originally Posted by Beanie

The truth is Chaz has ALWAYS been this way. You just said yourself there was a gang up thread years ago. Same ****, different day, many of the sayme players though some would like to pretend that's not so.

Now that you say that , it is true. Maybe now I have changed and don't want Chaz to be the way it is. I dunno. I do know how great Chaz can be and the ugly garnishes the great. Maybe that is why I have a problem with it now. I don't want to restoop to that trashy level.