Most of the stuff you have gotten offended over was people calling you out when you were making the situation worse instead of better.
The thread got 'heated' when you did.
I agree with the last post you should definitely have a professional help you with this. Rereading this thread you keep trying a bunch of different things and the one thing you NEED is consistency and it doesn't sound like you quite know how to use it.
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