The Venting Thread - Page 74

skittledoo · #**731** 10-13-2012, 08:36 PM

I have no problem dropping him off but apparently he needs to pick the guy he is working with and said they have to run to home depot to get material etc. I have a dog playdate scheduled tomorrow and a meeting with my counselor on Monday. Plus, Zoom is in town and I was sorta hoping to meet up with her for a short bit.

I'm so mad right now.

darkchild16 · #**732** 10-13-2012, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by skittledoo

I have no problem dropping him off but apparently he needs to pick the guy he is working with and said they have to run to home depot to get material etc. I have a dog playdate scheduled tomorrow and a meeting with my counselor on Monday. Plus, Zoom is in town and I was sorta hoping to meet up with her for a short bit.

I'm so mad right now.

Then he should ask if you can help them do these things real quick and then go do your own stuff. Theres ways of being a adult about it.

skittledoo · #**733** 10-13-2012, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by darkchild16

Then he should ask if you can help them do these things real quick and then go do your own stuff. Theres ways of being a adult about it.

That would require him to be logical lol. His other argument is that since its out in Alexandria it would waste too much gas. His priorities are always more important than mine no matter what.... If there is one thing I've learned from this marriage its that. *sigh*

darkchild16 · #**734** 10-13-2012, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by skittledoo

That would require him to be logical lol. His other argument is that since its out in Alexandria it would waste too much gas. His priorities are always more important than mine no matter what.... If there is one thing I've learned from this marriage its that. *sigh*

Thats one thing Im lucky about with Jeremy its very common for men with his disorder to be that way but I can tell him point blank you are being a ass and hes like oh sorry and we work something out.

((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

is this something you can bring up with the marriage counselor with him?

yoko · #**735** 10-13-2012, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by skittledoo

That would require him to be logical lol. His other argument is that since its out in Alexandria it would waste too much gas. His priorities are always more important than mine no matter what.... If there is one thing I've learned from this marriage its that. *sigh*

You picking up his friend going and getting the stuff and coming back would be the exact same amount of gas.

darkchild16 · #**736** 10-13-2012, 08:47 PM

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You picking up his friend going and getting the stuff and coming back would be the exact same amount of gas.

Logic. Yoko haz it

You know Amber I would even ask him point blank what would you do if I had to work. My car is not a free for all. I pay for it and I pay for the convience of having it available to me.