Originally Posted by yoko
This is all I really need to know:
After having a ton of friends in elementary/middleschool/high school with divorced parents and them having to go through only seeing one parent a couple times a year and being constantly hurt that the parent decided to do things that didn't involve them and was fun for the parent instead of being good for the kids I have NO tolerance for anyone not putting their kids first.
No reason for them to not have the kids first and no reason for them to even vocalize that they won't be putting their kids first.
But you don't have the whole conversation. You don't have a transcript of the situation. It seems to me like it was a tl;dr version of the conversation. You just don't know.
Unless people have REALLY weird conversations