Advice re: church groups

[ACooper]

I agree with sparks. I think you should look at more groups than just those two before you 'settle' if it's at all possible. I'd check out all the compatible churches/groups, then choose the best fit.

And no, I don't think it's wrong to choose the group with the best guys, LOL You are choosing this group not just for similar beliefs, but for socialization reasons.............why wouldn't you consider the men in the group? Men are a big part of socializing, LOL

[Greenmagick]

Admittedly I have no idea how church groups work (or really even what they are lol) but why cant you do both? It sounds like its just a bunch of people getting together to hangout? Why would it matter how many you are in?