Originally Posted by PlottMom
he does have PTSD and a traumatic brain injury... he's a true success story, in that he functions pretty normally. but yea, that's stuff that never really goes away. he spent 3 years at walter reed...
Hubby has PTSD and TBI from his last deployment... I'm not gonna lie, he can be a wanker sometimes, but he's never treated Winnie the dogs or myself badly, and he's certainly never left us (I'm not saying he treated you badly, just for the record because a lot of people here know my track record with my X) so maybe you could blame PTSD or the TBI, but I wouldn't. Maybe you need to get some counseling TOGETHER if he's willing to try it, but give him space and let him approach you. If he doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be, and frankly I think you deserve better.
I have a long crappy ending relationship story, but everyone here already knows it, and you know what? I ended up in a Cinderella story, and so will you. You know why? Because you deserve the REAL one. <3