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Old 04-07-2013, 02:15 PM
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Default Happily married/committed people of chaz.. how did you know you found "the one"?

Just curious, how did you know that person was "the one" for you?

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Old 04-07-2013, 02:26 PM
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Old 04-07-2013, 02:41 PM
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He told me that he knows we are meant to be together and there's nothing we can do to change it. And he's sorry the universe chose HIM for me. (That's basically how his proposal went..."I'm sorry that you're stuck with me, but we're supposed to be together, I just know it. Let's get married ASAP")

I'm gullible & believe(d) him.

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I was with my ex for about 5 years and was convinced that we'd get married, have a family and be content our whole lives...because that's what you're supposed to do, especially when you're with a person for a considerable amount of time. And it was super comfortable, I loved his family, mine adored him...but there wasn't that 'spark'. We were great friends/companions, but awful partners in life.

K showed me how great it is to actually spend your life with a person you adore and can't get enough of. And to be a part of a team. Maybe our whole lives were leading up to this point, or maybe it's just a huge coincidence but I am stupid happy and know that he's the one I want to be with forever!
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Old 04-07-2013, 03:03 PM
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Think you just know. Don't think there is any major epiphany with angels singing and lights beaming
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Old 04-07-2013, 03:50 PM
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I knew when He was getting out of my car and told me he loved me for the first time. then caught himself and blushed. I just knew then to give it up and quit fighting i was for him and he was mine.
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Old 04-07-2013, 04:13 PM
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It was just...a feeling, I guess.

I hadn't dated anyone before him - I went out on dates, and there was one guy that had hoped we would become serious as we had been "hanging out" off and on for about a year (I turned him down when he wanted to solidify things). As much as I wanted to be a part of a relationship...none of the guys I had went out with seemed like they would be The One. I couldn't see the future version of myself with any of them. And since I didn't care to be in a relationship without striving for Happily-Ever-After, I didn't want to pursue anything.

With Mike...it was just different. First day I met him, I really enjoyed his company. Which is unusual for me to hit it off with someone that well. First date was just really comfortable, not only with how we talked with one another, but how we interacted with each other. Three dates later when we became "official", I brought him out to meet my parents and I knew I was in it for the long haul.

I really can't picture me with anyone else. He's just...Mine. There has never been any doubt in my mind.
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Old 04-07-2013, 03:43 PM
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Kinda just knew. There was nothing super lovey dovey that just shouted OMG He is THE one, but the thought of being married to him just fit and I just knew.

Mind you, we have had some seriously rough times where I've questioned our marriage, but lately its been more good than bad so I'd say for the most part I'm happy with my marriage at this point in time.
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Old 04-07-2013, 04:06 PM
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Like Dizzy said. I just knew. There wasn't this one grand moment.

I just knew, we both did even before we'd met in person. We were just like two peas in a pod lol. It was so easy to talk to each other and we were (are) always laughing because we have very similar humor styles. Between times when we would talk I was always looking forward to thw next time we could talk... (Almost 8 years of marriage later and it is still that way).

Plus he was a hockey goalie and I always knew I would marry a goalie lol. I had dated people before and been in a couple long term relationships but none of them were goalies and none of them worked out lol. I know that sounds stupid lol but goalies are... Different haha and it takes a special person to really "get" them IMO lol

In past relationships there were always the times that they would make me cry (not happy tears either). They would just be insensitive or confrontational or just a jackass lol. Brian NEVER left me in tears. He never said things to hurt me and he was never insensitive.
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Old 04-07-2013, 04:09 PM
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Just knew, our first actual date I knew.
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I dont know, I think because we were able to work together, and live together and not kill each other and still find stuff to talk about lol.
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